I have taught her well...Serra's assignment here was to explain what the painting was about. She writes: I think the woman is making work for him. She could actually carry it, but he is the man so he has to do it.

The time has completely gotten away from me. My calling in Relief Society as the activity counselor seems to take up my updating time. So let's back up a bit.
I guess the biggest thing has been Brian's new job. Community Ambulance has been up and running, and running FAST since August. They have been so busy it is quite remarkable and most of the success is owed to Brian's efforts. He has been working long hard hours and on top of 12-15 hour days (plus many weekends) he is taking the basic EMT class 2 nights a week. He has not had time to study for it at all with his work load and still manages to pull A's on most everything. He sends me a text in the middle of his class to tell me his score and we just snicker. If his classmates knew he was pulling these scores without a lick of studying there would be rebellion. We miss him and hope his schedule loosens up soon but won't count on it as some big things are happening in the next few weeks. They are in need of Paramedics so if you know of any looking for work there is a great opportunity with this amazing company.
I love that I get to stay at home with my kids especially in these uncertain times. I stay very busy with these little people. Rosie asks me everyday what we are doing for fun that day. We try but sometimes I'm afraid laundry gets in the way. I have been trying to do Relief Society activities once a month. They stress me out a bit. We haven't had the turnout I would like to see for the amount of effort put in. I sent out 150 (mailed) invitations for our Visiting Teaching conference and dinner. I announced it in Primary, Young Womens, and RS for a solid month. It was such a nice evening, beautiful weather outside in a members nice yard, a great program, delicious food. About 45 showed up. Some complaints from those that didn't come was that I didn't provide a nursery or they didn't know about it. This month was our fun run and breakfast...for the whole family...last Saturday morning. I think we had maybe 30. (including spouses and kids) It's a bit frustrating. We decided to give it a rest for November.
My flowers sales this summer were faboo and with that and a wedding photo shoot...Christmas is taken care of. Tithing blessings for sure. I have gotten my little store to the point that I don't have to spend a lot of time maintaining I spend a little time everyday and run to the post office a few times a week. The post office is in a grocery store so I can pick up any needed items in one stop. I can also load all the kids and boxes into a grocery cart...that's convenience for sure.
Charlie started walking on her 14 month birthday. That is nearly 4 months later than all my other kids. She is her own little person for sure. She is such a happy little kid and quite the self soother with that thumb. She chatters constantly and doesn't like strangers. She prefers Mom and Dad but will go to Serra in a pinch. You will usually find her in one of the kids rooms making a little mess or in the kitchen unloading a cupboard. It feels like we just got past that stage with Weston to start it with Charlie. In other irony...Weston now closes the bathroom door to keep Charlie from playing in the toilet or unwinding the paper. It's only been a few short months since Mr. Wes was that issue. She is still on 2 naps a day...what a champ. She has a mouthful of teeth and eats what we do.
Weston is still able to make a disaster area in any situation in seconds flat. I would say he is about 50% at potty training. That would be a failing grade. He knows how, knows he's supposed to, but it has to be his idea or he wants something. I make him go before he can watch a show or have a beloved coco. I catch him about half the time opening the back door and peeing on the patio and he still poops out in the yard. I never thought I would be out in the yard looking for human land mines rather than doggy mines.
Rosie started pre-school this September. She goes 2 days a weeks for 2 1/2 hours. She L O V E S it! She wants to go every day. Her teacher is great and has been doing pre-school for 11 years and is very organized. She has a great set-up and even better the best back yard ever. Rosie's favorite part is the play time in the back yard. We had a field trip to Anderson Dairy last week...lot's of fun. She has started to be interested in playing with friends.
Serra started 3rd grade this year and it's been a bit of a struggle. She is doing just fine academically but is having difficulty socially and is stressed out all the time. She worries about everything more than an 8 year old should and is having trouble making friends. There are tears nearly every night. She says she has an imaginary friend she spends recess with. I think part of the problem is none of her friends from last year are in her class and kids are already clickish at this age. She is having trouble breaking into clicks. She shouldn't have to deal with this crap so early. We know that Brian's busy schedule may be having an impact as well and he has been making an effort to get home to at least put the kids to bed. We are looking into a nearby Montessori school that is a Charter School. It is still part of the school district but the Montessori philosophy is much more in line with what Serra needs. Most of the kids there are LDS as well. We'll see what happens. If we decide to make the switch Rosie will start Kindergarten there next year as well and the school goes up to the 8th grade. I would love for my kids to skip the whole middle school experience if at all possible. I don't think the trauma of middle school builds character, but instead destroys confidence and puts kids into survival mode.
Back to August. I decided my kids and I needed to have at least a little vacation. It would have been nice to have Brian with us but the week we had available in between school years was his first week doing transports with the new company. I organized a family getaway to the Anderson cabin for the Arnell crew. It was a lot of work and organization but we had a great turn out and a fabulous time. I love the way the kids play so well together and clearly love being together. My kids have been asking when we will do it again. I am hoping to organize another one next summer. We have a lot more flexibility since we are no longer on a year round schedule.
If I remember correctly I drove up on Wednesday the 11th. The kids and I got up there before dark, picked up some dinner, and got things all set up. It was so quiet. (A little spooky with out my husband there to keep away the wild animals
) The kids were filthy within minutes and we settled in for the night. There was no TV, Radio, or worldly noises. We went to bed early and got up early. The kids saw a moose first thing and were outside as soon as I shoved some food down their gullets. It was so delightful to wake up to a chilly morning. Julie joined us shortly. We were the only ones there for Thursday. It was great to spend time with her and the kids. The rest of the clan showed up throughout the day on Friday including Serra White great with child. I loved having everyone there just hanging out together. My kids favorite things were hiking (walks) with the uncles and riding the 4 wheelers. Dallas brought his up and there were two there. The kids stayed busy all day, got really dirty, and fell asleep giggling with each other every night.
Saturday morning we made an appearance at the Brower family reunion. I think the rest of the Brower family excluding Davids family and Catherine Dean should be ashamed of themselves. No one came. It's rude that those that live 15 - 60 minutes away don't bother to make an effort. Enough said.
Sunday we hauled everyone into Wanship for church and then relaxed the rest of the day. Most took off that evening so they could start their week from their own home. Julie, and Gary's families stayed through til Monday morning and helped with cleanup. It was a success. Thanks to all who came and helped us have such a great time. I hope we can get Jeff and Maren next time. They seem to miss out on a lot of these fun times which really stinks for us.
Before we left for the cabin in August I went and turned a year older. Brian took me out a day early because he thought he had to go to court on the evening of my birthday for a traffic ticket/insurance/registration misunderstanding. As it turned out he was supposed to go that morning and missed his court date. Oops! So Brian had a warrant out for his arrest for about 12 hours. He he. He took care of it first thing the next morning. Anyway, we went to one of our favs...The Golden Steer which is one of the best steak places in town with the best old Vegas atmosphere. They put a fire cracker on a piece of cake and sang badly...it was awesome. With facebook, phone calls, texts and cards I received somewhere in the range of 75 Happy Birthdays...that's pretty cool. It felt really good.
My August activity for RS was an all about honey demo. We had a representative from Cox Honey come and give us recipe conversions, health uses, facts, and question answers all relating to honey. It was really quite awesome. We had 15 or so at my house for that. I volunteer my house often because it gives me incentive to clean really well.
In September we had an Employee and Family and Friends BBQ at Community Ambulance. Brian sure knows how to throw a party. He arranged for 2 bounce houses, snow cone machine, popcorn machine, and even a cotton candy machine - all serve yourself. The kids had a blast. Brian cooked up somewhere in the ballpark of 15 pounds of carne asada. I cooked 120 tortillas and made about 3 gallons of pico de gallo. It was great and there was a great turnout. We decided that next party will be catered though. It was a ton of work.
We enjoyed general conference this year all by ourselves. I made cinnamon rolls for us and a few others and we had a low key weekend. Holly (Brian's sister) came into town for a few days and we got to meet Porter for the first time. What a cute little man. Adriane, another of Brian's sister, who lives here in town, had a baby a few weeks ago. Another girl for them....Vanessa. She is a little dolly. We went to the hospital to meet her and on the way in were almost hit by a car in the parking lot. The lady pulled around right in front of us and ran into the ER yelling apologies and that she needed help. I thought she needed help until we passed her car and in the front seat was a woman in the mist of a heart attack. I stayed with her, patting her hand, telling her they were coming, and wondering what was taking so long, until the woman came back with a wheel chair. Have the finances of this hospital gotten so bad that they don't have enough staff to send at least a nurse out to help someone coming into the ER. I was quite disturbed. We helped her out of the car and then we left to go see the new baby. I was shaking. I wish I had known what to do for someone in that situation. It was quite a helpless feeling.
So there you have it in a nut shell. We are headed up to Utah/Idaho for a 5 day visit over Halloween next week. Excited!



At the cabin...good food, lots of cousins, and fun.



Chillin' in the evening...Gary getting a massage from a 9 month prego woman...something backwards here.


In case you missed Gary's face in the far away shot....Charlie expressing some displeasure.


Angry birds on the iphone. Las Vegas gets some pounding rain during monsoon season.


Weston Shares his root beer float.


Five little cousins sitting in the tree...Wes fears he will break his knee...If you look close you can see Evelee...



Ice cream in Park City. Charlie up on 2's. Weston and Rosie meet baby Vanessa. Weston's face has the left over remnants of his trampoline and brick wall mishap.



Rosie's preschool class at Anderson Dairy and her favorite friends Samarah and Reagan. We took the kids to the carnival last week and met the star from Disney channels Halloween Town. Serra was THRILLED to see a MOVIE STAR!



Fun pumpkin patch.



Meeting the scary witch and cousin Violet.



Fun Carny rides. Check out the ones Serra prefers.



Weston and Rosie go for a slightly milder fun.




We carved pumpkins. This is the first year Serra did one all by herself. Hurray! Yes that is Weston taking off his night diaper...







Fun at the Community Ambulance Party.




And a few more cabin shots of the kids out looking for ticks.

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