I don’t know that I am ready to revisit last week yet but I guess I better before too much else happens and I lose my mind.
I guess I left off where we came back from Utah the first time. We had a few days to get everything in order to take off again. Friday and Saturday Anderson family started arriving for the wedding. We made an effort to spend some time with whoever was around on Friday. Saturday we attempted family pictures for Eric’s family and I think we got a few that will work. We wanted a cousin picture with all the kids dressed in their matching wedding attire but Sophia and Christian had both had it and needed naps so we dropped that idea.
Adriane and Vito’s Wedding – 07/07/07 – @7pm. We arrived a little early to take any family pictures we could ahead of time. It was a little too chaotic at that point so we pretty much scrapped that idea. The wedding started a little late and it was outside so everyone was sweating buckets in 115 degree temps. But the ceremony only lasted a few minutes and was really nice. Adriane and Vito looked fantastic and our kids looked cute as ever tossing flower petals ahead of the couple.
After the ceremony we got the whole wedding party together for a huge group shot and then had about 30 minutes of light left for photos outside. We got what was needed and I was very sweaty for a long while after that but it went better than I expected. I haven’t even looked at the pictures yet though because of all the other stuff that has happened since.
The reception was a lot of fun. The food was really good and plenty of it. Our girls danced for 2 hours straight and we had to fight them to keep them off the floor for certain dances they couldn’t participate in like Adriane and Dwaine’s Daddy Daughter dance. I was kicking myself for not having a video camera. I was too preoccupied with the other pictures to even think about it. Sophia especially had quite the rhythm. We stayed until I was so pooped I couldn’t think straight and Serra finally got her cake.
Brian ended up staying up half the night organizing his backpack for his fishing trip and getting things lined out for Dwaine while he was gone.
We headed for Utah as soon as Jeff joined us at 10am figuring we would make Logan by 6 or 7 with enough time to visit for a bit and get plenty of rest for the boys who had a long travel day and hike the next day. It was not to be. Shortly after Cedar City the I-15 was shut down for wildfires. We were detoured off the highway heading who knew where. We didn’t have a map with us and there was nothing by way of gas stations or civilization for nearly 3 hours. Everyone needed a bathroom and after passing numerous cars stopped along the road for that reason we finally gave in and Serra had her first potty outside experience. The two stations we did pass eventually were so packed by detoured travelers we were glad to keep moving. We found one that wasn’t too bad and got a map to help us find the quickest way back to the 15. The detour ended up adding an additional 4 hours to a 9 hour trip. We were toast when we finally pulled into Serra and Rich’s house sometime between 11 and 12.
We were up early to get the boys out the door by 8am. Brian accidentally took my van keys with him. I was fortunate to have the valet key still in the glove box from when we bought it so we were not stranded. The first thing I did was head to a glass repair place to get the CHIP IN MY NEW WINDSHIELD repaired. I was quite upset about it but it has since become the least of my worries.
Tuesday I was heading out to Preston to have dinner with Mom and some inebriated bozo busy dialing on his cell phone rearended me while I was completely stopped. I was very angry and short with him and he insisted we didn’t have to call the police because the damage was minor and he would pay for everything out of pocket. Serra was crying as car accidents totaly freak her out. I wasn’t thinking clearly and left the scene after getting his information.. Only after talking to Julie who called police officer cousin Andy Barnes did I realize if I didn’t get a police report I was up a creek without a paddle. He was still behind be so I waved him over and told him I was calling the police. He freaked out a bit but didn’t take off. Mom came and sat with the kids while I was filling out the report. I have been through this garbage several times and it is such a hassle. I was so angry that my new car was damaged and it took me a long time to calm down. Dinner with Mom was nice though and we had a few adventures while in Preston. Rosie fell off the porch that is a few feet high landing on concrete but luckily only skinned her elbow. Mom and I battled a spider the size of Texas in the basement. That was also the night Mom noticed one side of Serra’s chest was sticking out on one side more than the other. She had a bit of a lump there. It is a bit disconcerting and we are not quite sure what to make of it. We headed back to Logan late and I was able to sleep without too much trouble.
Wednesday we took the girls swimming with Julie and her girls and they thought that was the greatest ever. Serra and Olivia got along better than ever. I think that’s the night Serra hosted dinner at her house. We pretty much stayed at Julie’s house during the day the rest of the week. The girls did slip and slide in the backyard and played all day and fought a bit now and then. Sophia and Evelyn had a bit of a struggle getting along. They both think everything belongs to them and so there were a few tantrums especially when it came to shoes.
Thursday we were supposed to visit Grandma Arnell in Bear Lake but she ended up having an extra eye appointment and wasn’t feeling well. Her sister Lolita in Mesa is not doing well either and has stopped eating. She is not expected to live much longer and so Grandma is dealing with that as well. I was feeling really sad for Grandma all day. After spending a busy day outside with the girls at Julie’s house we sent them all to the basement to watch a show and have some quiet time. Sophia didn’t get the message about quiet time and spent her time jumping off the couch onto a pillow. She landed wrong and started crying in a way that was unlike I had heard before. She typically bounces back quickly and so I held her for a while but she kept holding her leg and crying “owwie”. I took her for a drive to see if she would sleep and she did but kept crying in her sleep. I pulled over and poked at her leg in a few places. When I touched about halfway down her lower leg she jumped and started crying again. I took her to the doctor where they got her right in. They took x-rays. That was very traumatic. I could not stay in the same room because of my pregnancy and two adults couldn’t hold her down. They finally had to strap her down and she still managed to get her arms free. The look she gave me as she screamed made me cry right along with her. The x-rays showed a non-displaced spiral fracture on the tibia of her left leg. So now they had to splint it. At this point it was swelling and she was hysterical when anyone walked into the room. The splint had to be held in place on her led in just the right position while it hardened for 15 minutes. She was struggling so much that they didn’t get it on properly the first time. Mom came to the rescue again with her calming presence and a book. Sophia calmed down enough to get the splint on correctly. I was sweating profusely from all the exertion and my pants were falling down. Sophia was so red all over her whole body they asked me if she was sunburned but is was just from all her fighting and crying. They finally brought in a fan for us and when Mom came I was able to get myself back in order again. Sophia is not allowed to walk and she can’t anyway. Any pressure or bumps on her leg and she cries “owwie”. She is very good at a few new words. “Up” when she wants to be picked up. “Down” when she wants to get down from somewhere. “Get out” when she wants out of her car seat after driving for hours. That evening Serra came down with the stomach flu and we enjoyed a bit of puking to top off the day.
In the meantime Brian was getting a major bum kicking as he backpacked with Dallas, Jeff, and Dad in the Windriver range in Wyoming. He says he didn’t complain but he had some struggles. They were scheduled back Saturday but I got a call on Friday that they were headed back as they had gotten way rained out. It was a 5-6 hour drive back to Logan and he was still damp when he got in. I felt a bit sheepish having to tell him about all the bad things that happened while he was gone, but I was sooooo glad to have him back to share the burden.
Saturday we did some seriously stinky camping boy laundry. Then we visited the farmers market where Serra was selling her wares. We enjoyed some amazing lemonade that I am going to try to recreate at Brian’s request. He says it was the most refreshing drink he has ever had. We went to LaBeau’s for lunch which I think was a shock to Jeff and Brian’s systems after eating fish, rice and oats all week. We headed to Mom and Dad’s new digs in Providence and had fun ripping some seriously fashion challenged wall paper off the walls. The family gathered in the evening at Julies for dinner. I couldn’t take the heat anymore and ended up inside most of the afternoon.
It was nice to spend time with so much family these past few weeks. We saw everyone at one point or another. I really hope MandD’s place is ready for Christmas. It would be great.
We didn’t encounter any difficulties on the way home and made good time. The girls were fantastic again.
Monday morning we took Serra into her pediatrician who could tell us nothing about her mysterious lump. We have another appointment for her next week with and Pediatric Surgeon. We will keep you posted on the developments there.
I had a Presidency meeting this morning and have a nice new list of things to get done for my calling. We need groceries, the laundry needs to be done, the dog needs shots (and they want a poo sample- good times), and I need a nap.
Tomorrow Sophia gets her leg cast and I have a baby appointment on Thursday. I am also dealing with the insurance company about the car and it’s not going very smoothly. Brian has startedhelping me in that matter. He has made a few phone calls to get the ball rolling.
I will post some pictures as soon as I get some time to got through all that I have. It may be a few days, don’t hold your breath.